I'll be straight to the point. My fiance and I are pagan (no, we do not worship the devil, and if you have any questions, please feel free to PM me and I would be more than happy to answer any questions you have). But, all of our family is Christian. They do not know about our religion because we want to keep the relationships we have with them intact. We respect their religion, and have no problem abiding by their rules and customs when we are in their home. But, they same rules would not apply if any of our family found out about us.
That being said, we are having a ver traditional and formal wedding, be we have been discussing some ideas about incorporating a few pagan/handfasting traditions in the ceremony as well. We don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or give away that we are pagan (I don't think our family would realize that the customs are pagan- they just would think we are weird).
I just don't know if we should do so or not, and simply have a Christian wedding to appease our family and have a private ceremony with just us two for our own religious purposes/customs.
Thank you for any input!
*Note: I am not here to offend anyone. I'm not trying to push my religion on you in anyway. I respect all religions of the world as long as they do no harm to anyone. So, I ask that you please do not take offense to my post. If it bothers you, I politely ask they you do not post anything at all and go about your day. Thank you.