My wedding is August 7th. My parents are paying for the whole ceremony and reception, and his parents are paying for our honeymoon. We need to broach the subject to his parents about paying for the grooms dinner (for 22 people). Here's the problem--they are not familiar with many wedding traditions. And we're not having a mostly non-traditional wedding, so when I do bring up some traditions we are including (like renting tuxes), they get confused and say things like, "I thought this was supposed to be non-traditional". I feel bad for asking for more, but my parents have made it clear that they will be offended if his parents don't pay for the grooms dinner, and there's no way we can afford to pick up the tab ourselves. We're not talking anything too expensive (something around $10 a person would be fine, like pizza). Both of our sets of parents are well-off, so this would not be a financial burden for them. How to I bring it up, without sounding ungrateful for the honeymoon or greedy asking for more? Please help!