Our families are fairly traditional, but my mom is pretty laid back when it comes to living situations. My brothers both lived with their significant others prior to marriage, but now that the daughter (and youngest) of the family is getting married, it's a big no-no. This is quite frustrating, as my brothers lived with their current spouses for 5+years before even being engaged. I've been engaged since November and we'll tie the knot June 2012, and it would be nice to live with my fiance. I moved back in with my parents to save money in February and I feel like I am about to crack!!! He has been living with his mom since May. We found an apartment and are able to move in November 1st, but the plan was that he will move in first and I can move in later (March)...his mom wants me to wait until April or May and my dad has not talked to me about it at all (I don't think he likes the idea much), but I'm afraid that my relationship with my parents is going to crumble. I'm supposed to have the entire basement to myself, but I really only have my bedroom, bathroom and a storage space. I do not have any personal space and hardly any time alone because my parents always want to talk to me about something. They often make me late for appointments or school because they find that they need to talk to me as I'm leaving (I've started leaving for things WAY too early just so I have time...and now I've started slipping out without saying anything). My fiance would be okay with me moving in with him in November, but we don't want to totally piss off our parents.
Any advice on how to live with parents OR how to ease the tension about moving in together??? HELP!