Good morning knotties,
my wedding is 100 days away! We gave ourselves a very long engagement (18 months) and I was all set right from the start to change my name. But as the day approaches I fInd myself thinking more and more about losing the name I"ve had my whole life, and I really don't want to! I already have 2 middle names. My FI really wants me to change my name, but I think my mother(A die-hard feminist)'s influence is kicking in late in the game. He doesn't even like the idea of my hyphenating it! Is this just a weird manifestation of cold feet? I do like his last name, Holmes, and I like the idea of our family (When we have one) all having the same name. Do I just need to get over it? WHat are you all doing with your names?