Has anyone who has done a first look regretted it?
I would like to do a first look (I never had a strong urge to be traditional, and our ceremony and reception are at the same place, with only the cocktail hour inbetween), and my Fiance doesn't care either way. But now his mother is creating a big stink about it, and has even gone as far as threaten that it will severely threaten the mother-son relationship if we see each other before the ceremony. It's been a huge ordeal, and the short of the story is that he will back me up on what I want to do, but that he is torn because he wants to make us both happy.
I am so stressed about the issue because I know that the first look would make the wedding day (a little) less hectic, we could get a few more pictures in and we wouldn't have to spend the majority of one of the most important days of our lives apart (4pm ceremony). But the fact that it is going to affect thier relationship is something I don't want on my shoulders (she is doing a good enough job at ruining thier relationship all on her own and doesn't need my help)
Sorry it's so long, I needed a little vent and possibly some insight I haven't gotten yet, Thanks!!