Hey ladies, I've got a sticky situation. My FI and FMIL don't get along at all. He's pleasant to his mother, but doesn't feel she's an important part of his life. On the other hand, I'd be lost without my parents. I love them and appreciate all the sacrifices they've made.
My mother and father will both be walking me down the aisle (and it's also a nod toward his Jewish heritage as well). And I'm looking forward to the Father/Daughter Dance. Meanwhile, my FI doesn't want anything to do with the Mother/Son Dance.
We both feel that it will be somewhat awkward, and neither me nor my FI, despite the way he feels about his mom, want to cause FMIL any distress or insult her any way. But I really want to have the Father/Daughter Dance just like my two older sisters did.
I need some good logic, advice and help ladies. Thanks in advance.
"It's easy to halve the potato where there's love."
- Irish Proverb