Its only a few months before the big day & I have no clue on who to walk me down the aisle. My dad isn't going to be there. My stepdad was going to walk me but after alot of drama, I don't want him to anymore. I've already asked him but recent events has changed my mind. Now I'm left with 3 choices: My Uncle, my brother, & my grandpa. I have a very close family & any would do it in a heartbeat. But I dont want to hurt any feelings.
My dad wasnt around much when I was growing up & my Uncle & Grandpa both were there as male role models for me. I'm extremely close to both. And regardless who walks me down the aisle I'm having special dances with both at the reception. At family Christmas parties both hinted at wanting to walk with me down the aisle.
My brother on the other hand, is just 1 1/2 older than me so as any brother-sister relationships, growing up we didnt always get along. But the last few years we've became really close. The down side with him is he's very camera shy (my mom basically had to sneak pictures of him at his own wedding). So I dont know how the pictures with him would turn out (typically the pictures we have of him have his hand over his face).
I dont know how to pick someone without hurting someone else's feelings. I love all 3 but which one to have that honor?