I have always, ALWAYS wanted to get married on May 1 - since I was 8 yrs old I knew that May 1 will by my wedding date....
Cue the proposal - and the starting of planning - Looking ahead to 2013 (cause 2012 is NOT enough time!) and that year May 1 falls on a Wednesday. I know that many venues are cheaper when rented during the week; however Mom is telling me that if i want people to make it I should do it on the weekend - she says "The 1st weekend in May is fine, or even the last weekend in April" ....
My fiance says "If they love us and want to be a part of it they'll find a way to make it on Wed."
I'm torn - I don't want people to not be able to make it b/c its mid-week, but I don't feel comfortable "compromising" on the date that I've KNOWN I was getting married on for the last 20 years....