Growing up my dad was a great dad, but about 11 years ago he became severely addicted to pain meds and has become a completely different person. He is mean to my mom (they are still married) and does not accept any responsibility for his actions or words. He thinks he is not in the wrong ever and has said some very hurtful things to all of us. Every day is a constant battle.
How do I tell him I want to walk myself down the aisle without telling him the reasons why? He'd never understand and would blow up and I'm worried he would do something to ruin our day. This is a very touchy situation and I need help figuring out exactly what to say and how to handle it. I am open to suggestions!!