So I'm wondering about having a first look...is this a bad idea? I'm considering it because I am hoping it will calm me down before the ceremony, right now I can't even hear a love song we are planning on using without tearing up! My FI and I have been together a long time and he has a wonderful way of calming me down when no one else can! On the other hand, I kinda want to feel that moment when I see him standing there waiting for me, seeing me in my dress for the first time. How emotional should I expect to be and how to I reign it in so that I'm not a blubbering fool?! I think the first look idea is cute and we would get some pretty pictures, but does it spoil the fun?