We have been planning our wedding to occur at a local winery but as we are getting into the important parts of planning we are beginning to think we may want to do a destination wedding. If we do this we are going to take our parents, wedding party and few closest friends with us as our expense. We are completely torn on whether to avoid some of the work and go have a small wedding with those that matter most to us or the traditional wedding with extended family and all our friends...we need some advice!!!!