My father passed away 7 years ago when I was 20 and not anywhere close to getting married. I am now engaged and my fiance has never met my father. The fact that my father won't be there to walk me down the aisle has been one of the hardest things for me since he walked my 3 older sisters, and I wont have that. I have asked my brother in law who has known me since I was 6 to walk me down the aisle. My question is, what will he say when the preacher asks "Who gives this woman away to this man?" Normally it's "Her mother and I do", but since it will be my brother-in-law, what would he say?