ok my FI & I do not attend any church in the area ( or at all), my mom suggested my cousin's hb who is ordianed but I've only met once. my FMIL suggested the minister at her sometimes church, whom neither of us has ever met. a friend of ours is ordained but is maybe a little too much (personality -wise) for most of our guests. I feel like just opening the phone book and cold calling officants is impressional and might not get us what we want even if we interview them. any advice? who is y'all get?