So I have a questino.
It's very important for me to get married on December 20th. Both my parents and my dad's parents were married on that day. My parents are still happily married and my grandparents were until my grandma passed away two years ago. So, it's partially a good luck thing and partially because the day means a lot for me.
Well, I want to get married where I live now, though, because I have had a change in my education plans and my boyo graduates with his PhD in Chemistry that year, we will be leaving this area in May of 2014. The problem is that the 20th of December falls on a Friday...which would pose numerous problems. Which means we would be looking to get married in 2013 instead of 2014.
So my question is...would it be odd to get officially married on the Friday and then do a fake ceremony and reception the following day so we are officially married on the 20th? The official marriage would be private...I guess I'm just confused on how this would work, if it's a good idea, etc?