My dad passed away a year ago this month and we had a super rocky relationship. Obviously, there won't be a father/daughter dance. Honestly, I don't want to replace my dad's dance with anyone else. Even given our relationship, I don't feel right doing a dance with my brother or my mom or someone instead. However, I think it would be odd to have no father/daugther dance and still have the mother/son dance. My FH hasn't really said anything about it and we haven't really talked about it explicitly although it has come up... I just wanted some outside opinions. Do you think it's off base to only have our first dance and then no othe "special" dances? It would make me a lot more comfortable, but I'm ancy about asking my FH about the idea. I can't totally put my finger on why the idea of having his dance with his mom and me not getting my dance with my dad make me feel so uneasy, but it really does.