My mother will not be participating in any part of our wedding; not payment, hosting or any other duties and I am trying to figure out if or how I should incorporate her. We have a very strained relationship and I don't feel comfortable giving her any responsibilities ~ the constant checking up just won't do it for me.
I just wonder if I should try to acknowledge her or what I should do to make her feel included without actually assigning her any responsibilities.
Any ideas?