So my guy and I have been trying to work out the details of the wedding. I come from a very strictly religious family that is also very anti-alcohol. We NEVER have any alcohol what-so-ever at any of our family events. My fiance, however, comes from a family where as he put it "everyone is used to going and getting wasted at weddings." His dad is an alcoholic and his brother has substance abuse issues of his own. My guy had agreed originally that the wedding reception would be an alcohol-free event so my family is not scandalized. Now he is insisting that we should have some alcohol there because his family would be uneasy at an alcohol-free event. I honestly want his family to feel welcome and comfortable. But I also want my family to feel welcome and comfortable. If my family will feel out of place around alcohol and people drinking, and his family will feel out of place if they can't drink I don't know how to make everyone happy. I personally have no problem with people drinking in moderation but I do NOT want people getting drunk at my wedding.
The sad thing is that neither family will be happy with a compromise for various reasons. At least not any compromises that I have found so far such as limited alcohol so people can drink without having people get drunk.
**Too Long, Didn't Read (TLDR): His family gets wasted at weddings and they want there to be alcohol. My family wants no alcohol for religious reasons and having it there would make them uncomfortable.
So ladies, what do you think? Has anyone else successfully worked through an issue like this? Is there a "best" way to handle this?