My family loves the "Dollar Dance" and my mother is appauled that I would possibly cut it. If this were the case with FI's family I would just roll with the tradition and assume that I was the only one that thought it was really tacky. However, FI's family does not follow the tradition and I haven't seen it done at any wedding's on his side. My family will be asking each other, the DJ, and us when this is taking place if it doesn't happen after dinner and I'm sure if we do it his family won't understand or will judge... what should I do?