I really like my maiden name and don't mind what my married name will be. I would like to hyphenate them maiden-married. However, my FI is extremely offended that I would even dream of not just taking his name. I have said that our children will take his name and they will not have to have the hyphenation. Am I out of line here? I guess I just don't understand why it is such a big deal to take his name AND keep my name. Help!!