I hardly know her, let me just say that first. We have only met twice. I don't even particularly care for the woman. In fact, I'm concerned she will try to make the day more about her. That is just her personality.
Her mother (my future mother-in-law), told me in person that they both expected me to ask her to be in the wedding. I was shocked. I had no idea this was expected of me.
Well, I have chosen NOT to ask her. Why? Because it's my wedding and I should be able to choose my attendants. They don't know I have made this decision yet. My fiance could not care less, and my family thinks I am right to choose my own bridesmaids.
Do you think it's wrong of me not to include her? I don't want to create any sort of hard feelings, but it's ridiculous they would put that kind of pressure on me in the first place!