I was having a debate with one of my BM the other day. i was just wondering if I am right or if she is.
So here goes:
My Bm's planned my shower for me and asked for a list of the females that I invited to the wedding. I gave them the list. A few days ago one of the BM asked me if there was anyone else that I wanted to add to this list. i said no as I dont think it is right to invite anyone else to the shower if they were not invited to the wedding. She said that she wanted to invite a few of my friends that I did not invite to the wedding, I asked her not to as this seemed "gift grabby" to me. An I right to ask her not to invite others, or should I have just left it alone and said if she wants she can as this is the party she is planning and not me?
Same with the bachlor party, I have been informed that there is possibly a guy or two that wasnt invited to the wedding that may be attending it. is that weird?
Both me and my FI agree that if they are not invited to the wedding then they should not be involved in any pre-wedding parties! Are we correct?
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-- Helen Keller
