My fiance and I are having a difficult time figuring out what to do. We are having trouble getting both of our families together for one ceremony saying they live on opposiate sides of the country and cant afford to fly out here. My familiy would like for his immidiate family and mine to go to Cancun and have a small ceremony there and then have a 2nd one for everyone else. I know there are mixed views on this but I'd like to hear some opinions.