Ladies, I found the one!
Dinner alone will cost as our entire wedding budget, which means that we'll have to at least double that but I don't care! We have plenty of time to save and the venue is worth every penny, so full of charm and history, it's gorgeous. We're very happy!
They registered the option for our date but we won't be able to secure it until the price list for 2014 gets disclosed, which I found odd... does it sound common prodecure to you, ladies?