This is terrible of me, but I need to vent.
My fiance moved here about 6 months before we met because of a lack of work in his hometown. He left behind a very close knit group of friends, we met, started dating, moved in together, got engaged, had a little one and are getting married now. Hes lived here for over 3 years. Hes loves living here and we dont have any intention of ever moving back to his hometown, theres no work there, for either of us, we have built our family here and we are happy.
His best man well call him..Ian. hates that - of all of FIs friends, he is now the only one left there, the rest followed Kev and moved here to make money and have now put down roots.
Every time we speak to him he asks when KEVIN is moving back..not all 3 of us..just him..
Then..well, long story short, he was bashing where I live on facebook, FI had commented on it and BM had started in his "move baaaack" speeches. I commented "you should move out here, lots of work..etc"
Needless to say he took it too far, he told me to keep our son and send Kevin home
There are two best men in our wedding, FI couldnt chose between this guy and another, so he had them both.. In my opinion "Ian" is NOT a best man.. your best man is supposed to be your biggest support other than your wife, not the guy telling you to ditch your family and come home so he has someone to be a bum with and get high..(hes still living like theyre in highschool)
what do I do???
FI has talked to him, and "ian" apologized to me..his idea of an apology was "im sorry you didnt take my joke the right way"
im at a lose about what to do