I asked my childhood friend if she would be MOH... unfortunately I only have an e-mail address (as well as Facebook) to get in touch with her so while I would otherwise have asked her in person, e-mail was really my only recourse (she and I both have busy schedules). We haven't been in touch for the past few years but we were friends for 10+ years and she was my all time best friend, so I wanted to extend the honor to her and let her know I was thinking of her. I wasn't counting on a yes as I know she is busy but any answer at all would be nice. That's where the problem is. I contacted her a week ago and let her know the date of the wedding (she asked) and I haven't gotten a reply (although she has plenty of time to update her facebook a number of times a day). In the last message she gave a story about how she's busy and whatnot (although two weeks ago she went out of state to attend a wedding and has plenty of messages from her friends about going out to do stuff). I don't care if her answer is 'no', I guess I'm just peeved that she isn't replying. Am I right in thinking she's being a flake? Should I just forget her and go on with my plans to have my brother's girlfriend/fiance as MOH?