My MOH (sister) and I are having a bit of a disagreement on dresses. She acutally WANTS 'bridesmaid dresses' I prefer the girls pick out their own short black coctail dresses. Our wedding is at an Art Center with the reception in the a very modern lounge. I don't feel like traditional dresses go with the vibe I am picturing. The colors are black and ivory with black feathers and blush pink flowers. So, MOH is afraid if the BMs have different dresses no one will know they are bridesmaids.. I was thinking I could get them all a feather brooch to pin on the dresses as a gift and to tie them together? Thoughts?