2 maids of honor okay?

johnsongirl1

I have 2 best friends that I have know all my life.. I can't imagine neither one not being in my wedding. Also, I haven't been able to choose which one to have as the maid of honor so I chose both. They are both single and are not giving me a hard time about anything. But I want to do what feels right to me. I've had people say to me that its not traditional and that I can't do it. But I'm thinking, its my wedding, I'm paying for it and I can have what I want to have for MY day... am I being unrealistic? Is this crazy? What do you all think?

ffmaid

It is very common to have co mohs If this is what feels right do it  

mbcdefg

It's fine, go for it.

banana468

In this instance, it's perfectly find to say that it's YOUR wedding party and if you want two MsOH, go for it!However, I beg of you, PLEASE try to refrain from using the line, "MY day."

bablingbrooke

I've had people say to me that its not traditional and that I can't do it.That's ridiculous.  Why would they say you can't do it?  Will the officiant say, "Demote one of these ladies or this marriage will not be performed"?  Not at all!  Ask them both, you'll regret not asking them.

vallyhoo

I think 2 MOHs are fine, and please take heed of what banana said, she is spot-on.

jeannigirl

No your not being unrealistic at all. You can have whatever you want. Don't listen to all the wagging tongues.You can have 2 MOH. Tell them you love them both and you couldn't decide so you selected them noth, Have fun and don't share to many details of your wedding has this will save you from stressing or second guessing yourself,Have fun and enjoy planning your dream wedding.

kar45

Do it! I don't have any cause I didn't feel right choosing. It's your wedding - do what feels right to you!

alliecarrie41

hardly anything is "traditional" anymore... theknot, marketing, bride magazines, photog., churches... everyone bends these rules all the time.  two MOH is fine.