I have a gorgeous ring bearer pillow and I have not a clue what to do with it. FI's stepmom made it for us not long after we were first engaged. It's hand-crocheted, and she even added swatches of color to it so it matches perfectly with our wedding theme. Unfortunately, we are not having children at the wedding, and therefore have no ring bearer. We HAVE to use this pillow- I would feel terrible if we didn't. I don't mind using it either, I just don't know how to incorporate it into the wedding. It seems a little silly to have the best man hold it. I'd love some opinions. Thanks!