Before last night, I never really read the posts on the message boards. Well, last night, I was getting close to throwing a seven over the behavior of one of my bridesmaids. So, I decided to read the posts on the Bridal Party message board to get some advice. I knew that I wasn't the first bride to deal with a selfish bridesmaid and I knew that I wouldn't be the last.Well, I am so glad that I read the posts. The advice was great and now I will be able deal with her better the next time she launches into one of her drama-fests, instead of bottling it all up inside until I want to shake her. I like my bridesmaids stirred, not shaken.