Im throwing a Bachlorette Party

ellsy62

Hello Girlies So I need your help...... I am in the process of throwing my baby sister her Bachlorette Party....We come from a very very Christian family and although Im willing to hit every male stip place on the east coast my little sister is so shy she would die if I took her there........plus she dosent drink. With that said.....we have decided to take her to a local restaurant that has a Comedy Show and since we are on such a budget.....like everyone else in the world these days.....we will get dinner and the show for $25/pp. My question to you is ......how can I make it a little more special for her while we are there?????? Im going to do the veil and I was thinking maybe some balloons on her chair???? She's not giving much to work with cause she is so reserved....but I still want to make it a night she will remember and make her have fun ANY IDEAS WILL BE APPRECIATED...THANK YOU IN ADVANCE

mbcdefg

If she's a reserved, shy person, you might want to reconsider stuff like a veil and the balloons, because it will just draw more attention to her. If the comedian knows it's her bachelorette then (s)he might spend some time teasing your sister. I think you have great intentions, but I would just think about your sister's personality before doing anything that'll let others know that it's her bachelorette party, know what I mean? She may not mind the attention or she might get really embarrassed by it - you know her best, so decide for yourself if attention is what she wants. You can still make her feel special by telling her that you care. I'm sure that the party in itself, especially if you can afford to treat her to everything that night, will let her know that she's loved. Maybe you could book a limo or a car service, have the restaurant bring her a special dessert, give her some gifts afterward, etc. Or write her a nice note.

banana468

Why not make her the focus of attention without the 'stuff'?Treat her to her favorite food and beverages, toast her before the meal and maybe get her an item of lingerie that she will wear on the wedding night.  Beyond that, just focus on a great night out.

jessiegirl_98

My BM's did the nicest thing ever for me. One of them was in charge of putting together a scrapbook. They each had 2 pages where they answered specific questions (like when did you meet, blah blah) then they wrote me a letter that was in there. Then, they selected some pics of us to go on their pages. Something like this would really show her that you all care, without embarassing her in any way.

ffmaid

If she is reserved she probably does not want to be the center of attention in this way *I would keep it low key not the veil and balloon thing. Maybe get a her special dessert delivered or something like that. Focus less on how to make it showwy and more on what would actually make sis happy

Julia O'Brien

A friend's BM put together a recipe book for her bachelorette with recipes from all of the ladies attending the wedding she could get ahold of. We all wrote out our favorite recipes to start her off, and forked over pics of us with the bride and wrote out stories or memories we had with the bride.  It turned out amazing, and it was very sentimental. It was fun to go through the book and see all of the yummy food and awesome stories (some of them very funny) and pics.