Wedding Party

Wedding Party FAQ

1. What are the duties of a MOH or BM or GM? Get attire, show up on wedding wearing said attire, smile during wedding and in photos, have fun at reception. 2. So Do I need an even number of men and women in the WP? No people can walk individually or 2 guys and a girl or 2 girls and a guy even such things as 2 guys or 2 girls. Pick as honors to those you love not for numbers. How many does not matter who matters 3. Can I kick someone out for not thowing me parties and going sqeee over every detail of my wedding? Only if prepared to end the friendship and have everyone who knows both of you view you as a total jerk Anyone else want to add and then maybe we can complile a list of FAQ as a sticky post at the top

Re: Wedding Party FAQ

  • My BM is pregnant, what do I do? Attire: Leave it up to her to find a maternity dress in the same color if she's going to be pregnant during the wedding. If she's due within a couple months before, let her buy a dress of the right color since she may not be able to guess her post-pregnancy size. Participation: Let her take the lead. Don't dictate whether or not she should still participate. It won't reflect well on you no matter how you slice it. What color shoes? Black, gold, or silver go with just about anything. Is there a good way to tell someone you don't want her in the wedding anymore? No. How old is too old for a FG/RB? There is no ceiling. How soon should I ask my WP? Less than a year.
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  • FI doesn't want my brother to be a groomsman!- Have him on your sideFI wants me to have someone I'm not close to be a bridesmaid. - If he wants her there she should be on his sideSomeone backed out! What do I do?- Nothing. You don't need to replace them, nobody will care if their name is still in the program, it shouldn't end the friendship.My friend can't afford to be in the wedding but I really want her to.- pay everything for herI know they can afford these things but they keep saying they can't.- You don't know, you are assuming and you have no right to tell them what they should spend their money on.  Drop it.  
  • Retread's pp left out Flower Pinners. Please don't forget about Flower Pinners. They are very, VERY important to the whole day.
  • My DOC's contract has a blip about her assistant going to the church with the guys for anything they may need, with a list of i.e.'s...assistance of bout. placement was one of the tasks. I kinda glanced over it at first. Had it said "Flower-pinning" I would have signed the contract immediately, if not sooner, because THAT is a super-special duty that some people just can not perform by themselves. I am so glad I have a DOC with an asst. that is capable of this. I wouldn't want just anybody sticking pins in the GMs. Or, even worse, cousins who didn't make the BM cut arguing over the uber-awesome chore. That would be just awful.
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