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Brides Maid

mcoope7mcoope7
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Has anyone ever asked a friend to be a brides maid and then changed their mind? I have a friend that has gotten creeper and creeper sense I got engaged and I don't feel like our friendship is going anywhere...How can I tell her not to be in my wedding?
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  • blackfire5thblackfire5th
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    Kicking her out of the wedding party will end the friendship. If you want to remove her from your life, then go ahead, but if you still want to be her friend, there is nothing you can do.
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  • aerinpegadrakaerinpegadrak member
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    That's what you get for asking this far out.  If you kick her out, you end the friendship.  End of story.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    I'm dying to hear more about the creepier and creepier stuff. To answer your question, if you boot her she probably won't be your friend anymore. You can decide if that's okay w/ you.
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  • Leah&Christian09Leah&Christian09 member
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    Kicking someone out of your wedding is a public slight and will end the friendship. If there aren't really good reasons, you will look like a huge bridezilla. Good reasons include: trying to sleep with your FI, stealing money from you, punching you, collecting your hair and creating a voodoo doll, getting indicted, etc. What makes her creepy?
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  • mcoope7mcoope7
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    Maybe I am over reacting, but she has started to copy everything I do, saying creepy things that hint toward her loving me as more than a friend, Saying that she, my FI and I are all a threesome family, and trying to get closure to him...Just odd things that make her weird! I should add that my FI also thinks she's creepy...
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    That would creep me out too.
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  • Leah&Christian09Leah&Christian09 member
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    Did she used to date your FI? It doesn't sound like she's a lot of fun, but it also doesn't sound like she's done anything terrible. Since you have so long before the wedding, I would suggest trying to put some distance between the two of you and then re-evaluate around January when it's time to look at dresses. If you don't want to be friends, you can end the friendship or taper it off between now and then and she'll probably drop out or just fade away.
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  • mcoope7mcoope7
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    That's what I'm thinking...I figure I'll distance and give it some time! It's odd how much my getting engaged has changed her, she was always my corky friend, but never this creepy...it's too bad.
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  • jeannigirljeannigirl member
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    I agree with the pp, speak to her that it makes you and FI uncomfortable and would like her to stop.
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