Alright, so I am trying to be positive and now that the wedding is over I feel ok venting about it. We had six groomsmen...one severed his tendon and had to have hand surgery....but did get out of his cast in time for the wedding, one smashed his dirt bike into a tree at the bachelor party and had to get 23 stitchs..he was out of his sling in time for the wedding, one groomsmen was admitted to a mental hospital and court ordered to take his medications..he got out 2 days before the wedding, one was arrested but got out on $25,000 bond 4 days before the wedding, one was my brother (poor bloke..he made it threw unafflicted) and one decided after the wedding on our way to the after party that it would be a great idea to hold onto the roof rack and stand on the bumper..his wife stepped on the gas..roof rack came apart and he was left with a shattered ankle and a broken wrist..in hospital for 5 days...Was it a curse to be one of our groomsmen or do I have to look forward to many colorful years?