When I was shopping for my dress, I came across the most perfect flower girl dress. I then emailed a picture of it to my aunt ( her grandmother). My aunt thought it was very nice and then forwarded to the flower girl's mother (my cousin). My aunt emailed me back after she sent it to my cousin and told me that my cousin "would consider the dress" when she buys her daughter a flower girl dress. Now in my mind, I feel that the FG dress should somehow match my dress and/or my BMs dresses and this is the dress that I would want her to wear. I feel since I picked out my BMs dresses it is perfectly acceptable for me to pick the FG dress. Am I wrong?