Sooo... Now that I've been married for over 1 month - one of my BM's has decided that she has all of these issues she needs to address with me. This BM was very problematic since day 1 and I almost made her an ex-BM but decided to be a big girl and just suck it up. I kind of wish I did. Anyway, it seems that she and my MOH (who had never met before the wedding since we all live in different states) were griping about expenses that they brought upon themselves. My MOH wanted to do an out-of-town bachelorette party - Miami or Vegas - and I was good with whatever. Doing something locally or back home worked for me but they decided to do Miami. I was not really involved in the planning only to make suggestions for hotel and dinner costs because the hotels and restaurants my MOH was selecting were very expensive. There was an e-mail exchange in which the two of them were bascially commiserating at all the money they were being asked to spend... What??? I did not ask to have a bachelorette party in Miami - it was one of several options suggested by my MOH and they made the decision. Quite frankly, it was a little bit out of my budget but they all seemed so excited I made it work. So, I am just really hurt that they have chosen to blame me for these expenses they decided to incur. The only thing I required of them were to purchase their dress and shoes. I paid for hair, make-up and jewelry... I didn't even have a bridal shower because I didn't want this to be another expense for folks... Things are basically over with the BM - there were several issues with her I won't get into now. Not sure what to do with my MOH...