Maid of Honor is engaged to a groomsman.

polkaspotties

So, my MOH is engaged to one of the groomsmen. I thought that, traditionally, the MOH and Best Man walk together? Would it be weird for her to walk with him and have a bridesmaid walk with the Best Man? I feel like it might look weird for them to all walk up there and stand in random spots. Maybe I'm just over thinking it though?

libby2483

I think you are overthinking things a bit.  It is perfectly fine to still have the MOH and BM walk together, even if the MOH is engaged to someone else in the WP.  I mean, assuming that you aren't asking the MOH and BM to make out once they reach the end of the aisle or anything, they should be able to walk with someone other than their SO  

kmsst48

Let the MOH and BM walk together and do the announcments togethe but if you're doing a bridal dance allow them to dance together if you're doing a bridal dance. 

aerinpegadrak

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[QUOTE]So, my MOH is engaged to one of the groomsmen. I thought that, traditionally, the MOH and Best Man walk together? Would it be weird for her to walk with him and have a bridesmaid walk with the Best Man? I feel like it might look weird for them to all walk up there and stand in random spots. Maybe I'm just over thinking it though?
Posted by polkaspotties[/QUOTE]

I think you're overthinking, and this is one of those things that can be sorted out at the rehearsal.  It's a 30-second walk, not a date, but at the same time, if they'd be more comfortable walking together, it can be arranged with minimal effort.  Ask them what they'd prefer and go with it.

banana468

It's fine for the MOH to walk in with the BM.

I was a BM when DH was a BM in his brother's wedding.   I walked in with a GM and he walked with the MOH.   No worries.

But PLEASE do not do a BP dance.

calliopeia2013

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[QUOTE]So, my MOH is engaged to one of the groomsmen. I thought that, traditionally, the MOH and Best Man walk together? Would it be weird for her to walk with him and have a bridesmaid walk with the Best Man? I feel like it might look weird for them to all walk up there and stand in random spots. Maybe I'm just over thinking it though?
Posted by polkaspotties[/QUOTE]

I've always thought it's nice to let couples walk in together (even if they then have to go stand in random spots), just because it often gives the couple the chance for a great photo op in formalwear, you know?  It's certainly not necessary, but it's a considerate thing to do, and I've always appreciated it when my FI and I were both in a given wedding.  And I don't think people are going to notice or care if the wedding party switches order a little bit when they're walking up.

Kate61487

I think it's fine to have the MOH and BM still walk together; it's only like 30 seconds.  But I'd put the MOH and GM together in photos / introductions or other parts where they'll be spending more time.

If you do want to have them walk together you can do that and still have them line up with MOH and BM closest to you.  A friend's wedding last year they had 3 attendants each; 1 bridesmaid (a friend), 2 MOHs (her sisters), a BM (his brother) and then a GM and GW (his sister and her husband).  The GM and GW walked in together and both stood on his side, then the BMaid and BMan walked in and then the 2 MOHs together - they all went to stand in the spot they would have traditionally even though they didn't walk in in the "right" order.

meganb1977

My MOH's husband stood as a GM.  She walked out with the BM, and her husband walked out with a BM whose husband was an usher.  So it's fine for couples not to walk out together!