My husband and I are having a 2nd wedding this fall with all of our family & friends. We were married last halloween by a Justice of the Peace with just our immediate family. We are treating this wedding as our real wedding and not skipping any traditions. Last night, my husband was talking with a friend about who should be in his side of the wedding party. After a few minutes discussion, he asked her if she would be one of his groomsmen, without even talking to me about it in the first place! She used to be one of my good friends, but we had a falling out and she apologized to my husband but never made mention of it to me. We are slowly becoming friends again but I would never consider putting her as one of my bridesmaids. Am I just crazy to be mad about all this? I know what's done is done at this point so should I put her in a bridesmaid dress or a dress that sort of matches the guy's suits?