Hi! I just got engaged, and we are planning for a wedding around Oct. 6. Right now we are living in New York, but will be getting married in California, where we're both from. We won't be able to book a venue until our visit next in December, but knowing three of my bridesmaids will be coming from New York also, when would be a good time to ask them? I want them to know asap so they can either start saving money for the trip or let me know they can't afford a "destination" wedding, but we can't officially set the date until we book the venue, which then leaves about 9 months for them to plan. Is it best to ask now and give them a general idea of the date? Thank you!