One of my best friends since grade school calls me up two days after I asked her to be a bridesmaid and tells me that she feels it is her duty to tell me that she hates my FI. She says that she thinks I'm making a mistake and she doesn't like him and doesn't want to pretend to be happy for me when she isn't. She talked to me for over an hour, telling me all the things she didn't like about my FI and putting him down. She even called my MOH and my mom to tell them the same things! I was so excited and happy and I feel like she is trying to ruin this for me. She always tells me she doesn't care and has no opinion about anything for the wedding. She then says that she is glad she told me all of this and feels so much better now. Well good for her, but I feel worse about her and our friendship. I'm tempted to ask her to step out of the bridal party. She's always been a good friend, so I hate to do that, but I feel that I only want to be surrounded by people who are actually happy for me. Any thoughts?