My fiance and I recently got engaged. Last weekend was my fiance's best friends' wedding. The bride (we'll call her Sarah) asked me to be her Maid of Honor last year. And although I was hesitant, because I did not know her that well, I said yes... mainly because I felt sorry for her that she did not have any closer girlfriends. She is the type of girl who always likes to hang out with the guys. I went through with all my Maid of Honor duties, and now I would say I consider her a friend. But I still do not feel close enough to her to ask her to be a bridesmaid in my own wedding. When I told this to my fiance, he became very upset. He said he considers Sarah as a sister to him. I am already having my fiance's actual sister stand up in our wedding, along with my two sisters, and my two best girlfriends from college. I also want to have two other close girlfriends stand up, but they are ex-girlfriends of two of the groomsmen. So, I have decided to not ask them. If I were to ask Sarah to stand up, these other two close girlfriends would be terribly hurt, because they know I am not close with Sarah. Help! Should I ask Sarah to be a bridesmaid for my fiance's sake? In hindsight, I should have told Sarah no to being her Maid of Honor. But I can't change that now.