Has anyone else ever opted out of a bridal party?
I've been engaged for about 15 months now and tying the knot on June 9th. My fiance and I have recruited our closest friends early on to be members of our bridal party. Grand total was 7 bridesmaids and 7 groomsmen. We thought this was a bit large for our mid sized wedding(about 90 guests) but we went with it because we wanted them all to be a part of our day. We've met with them on different occasions to talk about what being a groomsman/bridesmaid entails(not much lol) and the costs of the dresses/tuxes. Everyone was ok with this and did not express any concerns. Now as we're getting closer to the date(48 days away!), noone has gotten their tuxes or dresses and quite a few of them are saying they don't know when they'll have the money to get these things. After my fiance talked, we decided not to have a bridal party at all since it seems to be too much for our friends right now. We would much rather them be able to live after our wedding day and not be bitter about having to spend money on attire for our wedding. They'll all still be there as guests but that's about it at this point. We're a low key couple and don't like a big fuss so this was the decision we made. We're suprisingly getting mixed reactions to our decision to eliminate the bridal party. Was this a bad call? Has anyone else ever dealt with this before?