So, my wedding is March 5, yes, 2011 (eek) and I am having wedding party issues. After our engagement my fiance immediately asked his 3 brothers and 3 best friends to be his groomsmen (so 6 total). I am fine with him choosing who he wants and wasn't worried about numbers being uneven. I have asked my best friend to be my maid of honor and decided not to complicate it with others but now I'm not so sure since it may be awk for her and look strange since it will be sooo uneven. I won't ask him to make guys step down so I'm stuck.
Question is: Is it too late to ask additionals? (I am not hung up on certain dresses, off the rack store bought is fine so that wouldn't be a problem). If so, I would like to ask his brother's wife but his other brother has a longterm girlfriend. Would it be a bad idea to ask her too since they won't necessarily be together forever? Could I ask the wife and not the girlfriend or would that be worse? I would also ask my 4 female cousins but only one lives locally and already know one can't even attend the wedding (not sure if the other is coming or not yet). I don't have sisters or other close friends I would want to ask.
Help!
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