So my best friend convienced me to have my bachelorette party back in the state that I grew up in. Originally I wanted to do it somewhere else but agreed because in the end it would end up by being more economical for more of my friends and more people could attend. All of my friends live in 5 or 6 different states so no matter what most of them would have to travel.
I find out 3 weeks before the date that she didn't send anything out to my friends so they hadn't booked flights and didn't know what the cost was going to be. I asked that she send something to everyone and recieved a message that she was too busy with work and her kids and it would be ok if it was just us because we would still have fun. Two weeks to the date I finally decided to tell everyone not to try to traveling seeing as flights had already gone up to $700+. I found out from three of my other friends that they offered to help plan everything and never recieved phone calls or emails back.
I decided to bring my fiance back with me and make it a vacation seeing as no one else would be going. My Maid of Honor got upset that I was bringing him back there because now we couldn't hang out like we used to.
I understand putting your family first because I would do the same, I am just not sure that I understand letting my party fall through because you are too busy when other people offer to help.
I have not been one of those bridezillas and am really trying to figure out if I am over acting or not. I feel like a real friend no matter what would have made sure that it would have worked out despite how crazy things are for you. I kind of feel like maybe I need to let her know that I don't want her in my wedding party now as a result of this. I understand that maybe we won't be friends after but I think for me she already showed what a true friend she was at the time.