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blackfire5th

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_tell-matron-of-honor-dont-want-her-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:50805102-b12c-4ce1-811e-d5b366a66605Post:a32661a2-0ec7-4d4f-8b08-be7f42b1fd21">Re: How to tell Matron of Honor, I don't want her to be in the wedding?</a>:
[QUOTE]you find a replacement MOH and have her tell your original MOH. mbcdefg - that was great!!
Posted by jenn.daniel[/QUOTE]

<div>Duh, that is so part of her MOH duties!</div>

UnderAtree

Oh no I just realized I'm gonna be a pregnant MOH for my friend's wedding. Looks like I'm gonna have to start packing away my dress and hope she finds someone to replace me soon.

luckyme502

Um, there is no nice way because what you are doing isn't nice.  If she was my best friend I wouldn't care if she was due the day of my wedding, I would want her to be my MOH. 

krmabojo

You are getting rid of her because she is going to have a baby?

Wow... you are one mean person.

Miracle of birth is more important than your wedding day.

abbygrace8

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_tell-matron-of-honor-dont-want-her-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:50805102-b12c-4ce1-811e-d5b366a66605Post:c93fe9e8-041b-4bcf-94af-50ba905f7260">Re: How to tell Matron of Honor, I don't want her to be in the wedding?</a>:
[QUOTE]If you want to tell her in person, just sit her down and say, "Sorry, Wh0re, but I need all the attention for myself on my wedding day. So your fat pregnant _ass is out. Bye!" I suggest coming up with some kind of a rhyme for this, because everything always comes out nicer when it's in a cute poem :) And I would really play up the "fat" and "wh0re" angles of the conversation, so that she feels sufficiently guilty for her actions. Or, if you don't want to tell her in person (because, I mean, she'll probably get mad ... and do you really want to deal with someone selfish enough to get mad at the bride during her Special Time?), you could always send her an e-card: Enjoy ur day, sweetie! *hugz*
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</div><div>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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StephanieEdmonds2B

No thats not why, thats just one reason, shes coming from across the country and I don;t think she can travel 8 months pregnant like shes planning, and its just kinda a few reason I want kids myself and I would never have someone not being it because shes pregnant, 

bablingbrooke

That's not your call.  If she can't travel at 8 months, she will tell you.  Kicking her out preemptively, even out of concern for her, just looks bad.

StephanieEdmonds2B

but thank you all for the advice, maybe i was looking at it a little wrong, but just to let everyone know, its not because she will be pregnant, i am not a horrible shallow person that you all are saying, wow! Really wasnt expecting that, next time I post I will explain my situation a little better so it doesnt come across wrong lol

bablingbrooke

When you say "My BM got pregnant, how do I tell her I don't WANT her in the wedding anymore," people will draw conclusions based on that.  It sounds like you want to fire her for getting pregnant (many brides have posted here with the same question).

Just an FYI, had you said "My BM lives out of state and will be 8 months pregnant at my wedding, what should I do to let her know I understand she can't attend" you would have gotten VERY different responses.