I have a friend who I used to be really really good friends with since we were kids, let's call her Jill. When Jill got married a little while back I was a bridesmaid in her wedding, but since then we haven't really talked at all. Jill and I used to be really close with these two other girls who I'm having be bridesmaids in my upcoming wedding. I'm not planning to have Jill be one though because we haven't really spoken late. However, her mom and my mom and really good friends and her mom is helping out a lot with my wedding. I'm worried that if I don't include her not only with she be offended but her mother will be offended. What should I do?!
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If you still want to include Jill in some way, and not just out of guilt, maybe she could do a reading? Or ask her mother to do the reading.
Likewise, DD had her friend in her wedding last July. Friend is getting married next month, and DD is not a BM. And she's perfectly happy to just be going as a guest.
If you don't want the friend in the wedding, don't ask her. And don't ask her because her mom is voluntarily helping you. Thank the mom, and call it all good.