Hello ladies! I hope all is well. 135 days to go! (Sigh!) I have a question in regards to my MOH. For the bridal shower and bachelorette party, everywhere I've read says that she'll plan if she wants to throw me one. I'm certainly not going to say "you have to do this and that". If she wants to, cool, if not, that's cool too. Now the kicker is she asked me if I wanted one and what did I want to do if I did want one. I told her that it's up to her and I'll be happy with what she does. She said whatever I want to do is fine. I can't really make suggestions or anything, right? Wouldn't that be controlling or even (dare I say) a little Bridezilla-ish? Let me know ladies. Thanks.
Cassandra
Re: MOH question
So if she does ask, by all means tell her the things that you'd like. Understand that they're suggestions and she doesn't have to use them but there's nothing wrong with answering her questions. She's being a great MOH and you are being a very gracious bride.
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