Groom's nephew will be 1 when we get married, and that side of the family suggests using him as ring bearer. My parents say absolutely not. Groom and his parents disagree. I'm caught in the middle! Don't have a strong opinion either way.
Background: wedding is halfway across country, very formal in a large church (long aisle to walk down), no other children invited. No flower girl. Oh and 1-year-old's dad will be in bridal party, so mom would be doing the work. Nephew will probably be able to walk then.
I'd love to hear from other brides as well as from parents!