I don't get along with my fiance's brother AT ALL. He is a long list of things (I don't want to offend anyone), and my fiance isn't all that close with him. I'm worried that he might want to include him in the wedding anyways just because he's family. Also, I'd love to have my brother and sister, who we are both much closer with,be a groomsman and bridesmaid, but is it fair to have just my siblings? (We are not having a big wedding party; maybe 2 bridesmaids & 2groomsmen and our maid of honor and best man.)
thanks for any feedback!