I was a bridesmaid in her wedding and she's made it very clear on many occasions how upset she is when she isn't asked to be in a wedding....any wedding (be it family or friends) even if they weren't in her wedding party. So....at my engagement party, after many glasses of champagne, she asked me if she was going to be a BM and I said something like "oh of course!" I was clearly feeling overly friendly and spoke without thinking. I'm guessing this means she's my BM?