So, I have a friend that I made a bridesmaid when I got engaged, because she was always such a good friend to talk to and fun to hang out with. She is married to my fiance's close friend. Lately she has been really distant and seems like she's making excuses for why she has "ignored" us for months. Long story short, I have told her how we have been feeling, and it seems as though she is still using excuses...but what if those excuses r the real thing...although, that doesn't explain everything else that's been really shady in the last 4 months, or so. I just don't get how she can be that way and think i will get over it. I'm thinking about booting her, but I don't know if I should just yet. I want to give her the benefit of the doubt. I'm thinking of leaving it alone for now and see what happens over the next few months. She has some friends that she always makes an effort for, but she's gotten really close w them, and then we're left by ourselves. I could go on and on, but I will end it here. Any suggestions or advice??? If you want to know anymore, feel free to ask any questions. Thx!